Although it's a mother's instinct to know how to use a pacifier, new mothers may need a fresh helping hand when it comes to letting them know of the process. When this mother needs this type of help, this article can be there.

Steps

  1. 1
    Understand why your baby might be crying and fix the items that may be quickly taken care of (besides using the pacifier). Make a mental checklist in your mind of reasons why your baby might be crying that using a pacifier won't help fix.
    • The reasons are pretty endless. Perhaps it's the baby who feels it's time for a new diaper and doesn't want to feel that way, or perhaps it's hungry and it's coming due-time for a fresh baby bottle of formula, the baby could be sick or the room is not right temperature-wise.
    • Realize that these aren't the only reasons, but are two of the more common ones.
  2. 2
    Find the pacifier. Although your system is different than anyone else's system, some of the more common places the pacifier could be kept could include on a shelf on the changing table underneath the changing station, on top of a dresser, or even in a cup-holder to the nearest baby stroller. The possibilities are endless and you know your house and organization style best.
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  3. 3
    Grab the pacifier by the holder mechanism and hold it there until you've matched yourself up with the baby.
  4. 4
    Grab the knob to the pacifier's face mask, where the holder mechanism and mask meet.
  5. 5
    Rub the pacifier gently along the child's lips. They will eventually open their mouth just a little bit, enough for you to insert the pacifier into their mouth.
    • If they are wailing at the top of their lungs, you may skip this step - nothing will help them clench down to start using the pacifier until something else is solved.
  6. 6
    Push the pacifier into the child's mouth until the pacifier's face shield meets their face.
  7. 7
    Wait for the baby to accept the pacifier. Some babies are natural acceptors (accepting anything that's given to them) to soothe them into a calmer state. Other babies aren't, and will immediately push the pacifier back out - rejecting it.
    • The baby may reject the pacifier, if theirs another reason for their crying such as their diaper needs to be changed, or that they want food/formula/milk/etc. or for some other reason, that may be more urgent. Prepare a mental list of things the baby may need for you to complete and try giving the pacifier again.
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Community Q&A

  • Question
    How do I open a pacifier to put honey or something else in it?
    Kammyisawesome
    Kammyisawesome
    Community Answer
    With most pacifiers you don't open it; instead, you put the substance (like honey) on the sucking part of it.
  • Question
    What can I put in my 5 months old baby's pacifier?
    Zack
    Zack
    Top Answerer
    Never put anything in a pacifier. This could weaken the pacifier and endanger the baby.
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