I Hate Everything About You
"I Hate Everything About You" is the debut single by Canadian rock band Three Days Grace, from their debut self-titled album. One of the band's signature songs, it peaked at number 55 on the US Billboard Hot 100, number four on the Mainstream Rock Tracks chart and number two on the Modern Rock Tracks chart. It was the 9th best performing song of the decade on the Modern Rock Tracks chart,[3] and the 153rd best performing song of all time on the Alternative Songs chart.[4] Despite not being one of their number one hits on either of the two charts, it is the band's longest running song on both the Modern Rock chart at 45 weeks, and the Mainstream Rock chart at 46 weeks.
"I Hate Everything About You" | ||||
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Single by Three Days Grace | ||||
from the album Three Days Grace | ||||
B-side |
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Released | April 28, 2003 | |||
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Genre | ||||
Length | 3:51 | |||
Label | Jive | |||
Songwriter(s) | Adam Gontier | |||
Producer(s) | Gavin Brown | |||
Three Days Grace singles chronology | ||||
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Music video | ||||
"I Hate Everything About You" on YouTube |
Background
Adam Gontier said of the track:
The song is pretty blunt you know? It's to the point. It's about realizing there's something in your life you're wasting time on. I think everybody, even in this band and a lot of other people have felt that way before at one point or another in their life. Whether it's a person, a relationship whatever it is, you're just wasting time on it. The song is a realization of that.[5]
Written by Gontier and produced by Gavin Brown, the theme of the song deals with love–hate relationships.[6]
Critical reception
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Source | Rating |
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Heather Phares of AllMusic called the song "one of the better alt-metal/modern rock singles in recent memory."[2] She remarked, "At first, the song seems almost stupidly simple, both lyrically and musically. However, the controlled fury of the choruses and the ambivalent verses make the song a surprisingly smart and concise anthem for anyone stuck in a baffling relationship."[2] She also stated, "I Hate Everything About You's frustrated explosions and passive-aggressive recriminations eerily simulate the trajectory of an ill-fated couple."[2]
Music video
The music video starts zoomed in towards several things, such as a TV producing static, a picture frame, and an ash tray, and then transitions towards Adam Gontier who starts singing. The video shows three teenagers going through a disastrous moment in their lives. One shows a young boy who finds his girlfriend cheating on him in the alleyway, kissing another guy. He is spying on them in his car. The second teenager is a young girl, who just broke up with her boyfriend, and the last is a boy who is being abused by his alcoholic father. Towards the end they are all seen smashing items into a hill. The young boy spying on his cheating girlfriend whips a portrait of a picture of them, smashing it to pieces. The second teenager is seen smashing her notebook of love notes and miscellaneous love items with her ex-boyfriend into the hill. The last boy, who is suffering child abuse, throws his drunken father's alcohol into the hill.
In the video, the word "hit" in "after every hit we take" is censored, due to "hit" being slang for drug use. The video was photographed by cinematographer Steve Gainer, and directed by Scott Winig.[8]
Accolades
In 2004, the song was nominated for the "Best Rock Video" and "People's Choice: Favourite Canadian Group" at the MuchMusic Video Awards and won "Producer of the Year" at the Juno Awards.[9][10] In August 2007, the single won a BDS Spin Award based on the 300,000 spins it received.[11]
Publication | Country | Accolade | Year | Rank |
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Alternative Addiction | United States | "Song of the Year"[12] | 2003 | 33 |
AOL Radio | "Top Alternative Songs of the Decade – 2000s"[13] | 2009 | 8 |
Track listings
All tracks are written by Three Days Grace and Gavin Brown.
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "(I Hate) Everything About You" | 3:52 |
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "(I Hate) Everything About You" (acoustic version) | 3:42 |
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "I Hate Everything About You" | 3:52 |
2. | "Burn" | 4:27 |
3. | "Are You Ready" | 2:46 |
No. | Title | Length |
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1. | "I Hate Everything About You" | 3:51 |
2. | "Burn" | 4:27 |
Charts
Weekly charts
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Year-end charts
Decade-end charts
All-time charts
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Certifications
Region | Certification | Certified units/sales |
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Canada (Music Canada)[26] | Platinum | 80,000![]() |
Germany (BVMI)[27] | Gold | 150,000![]() |
United Kingdom (BPI)[28] | Silver | 200,000![]() |
United States (RIAA)[29] Digital |
2× Platinum | 2,000,000![]() |
United States (RIAA)[30] Mastertone |
Gold | 500,000* |
* Sales figures based on certification alone. |
Release history
Region | Date | Format | Version | Label | Ref(s). |
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United States | April 28, 2003 | Active rock radio | Main | Jive | [31] |
May 12, 2003 | Alternative radio | [32][33] | |||
Canada | September 22, 2003 | Digital download | Acoustic | [14] | |
United States | [14] | ||||
Australia | [14] | ||||
Germany | [14] | ||||
Great Britain | [14] | ||||
United States | January 19, 2004 | Contemporary hit radio | Main | [34] | |
Australia | March 19, 2004 | Digital download | [15] | ||
Great Britain | [15] | ||||
Germany | [15] | ||||
Australia | March 22, 2004 | CD single | [35] | ||
Australia | January 17, 2005 | Digital download | [16] | ||
Germany | [16] | ||||
Great Britain | [16] |
Use in video games
- NASCAR Thunder 2004 by EA Sports.
- Karaoke Revolution Volume 2 singalong game.
- It is playable with either a real guitar or bass guitar in Rocksmith as DLC.
- The song was made available to download on March 13, 2012, for play in Rock Band 3 Basic and PRO mode utilizing a real guitar / bass guitar, and MIDI compatible electronic drum kits / keyboards plus vocal harmonies.
References
- Blackie, Andrew (August 14, 2006). "One-X — Three Days Grace". FasterLouder. Archived from the original on August 28, 2017. Retrieved March 28, 2018.
- Heather Phares. "I Hate Everything About You by Three Days Grace - Song Review". AllMusic. Retrieved June 28, 2022.
- "Decade-End (Hot Alternative Songs)" (PDF). Billboard. p. 165. Retrieved May 12, 2022 – via World Radio History.
- "Greatest of All Time Alternative Songs". Billboard. Retrieved February 14, 2023.
- Montes, Michael (2004). "Interview with Adam Gontier of Three Days Grace". Florida Entertainment Scene. Archived from the original on January 16, 2009. Retrieved June 14, 2021.
- "Three Days Grace – Biography". Archived from the original on November 14, 2011. Retrieved March 12, 2023.
- "I Hate Everything About You - Review". AllMusic. Retrieved June 21, 2022.
- "Three Days Grace - I Hate Everything About You". IMVDb. 14 July 2003. Retrieved April 4, 2022.
- "MMVA 04". MuchMusic.com. Archived from the original on March 6, 2012. Retrieved January 5, 2022.
- "Past Nominees + Winners". Retrieved April 4, 2022.
- "BB-2007-08-18" (PDF). p. 46. Retrieved April 15, 2022.
- "The Best of Alternative Addiction 2003 - Top 50 Songs". Alternative Addiction. Archived from the original on October 16, 2007. Retrieved August 3, 2022.
- Dickinson, Boonsri (December 7, 2009). "Top Alternative Songs of the Decade - 2000s - AOL Radio Blog". AOL Radio. Archived from the original on April 25, 2011. Retrieved February 4, 2010.
- iTunes acoustic single:
- Canada: "(I Hate) Everything About You (Acoustic Version) – Single". iTunes Store. 22 September 2003. Retrieved December 14, 2016.
- U.S.: "(I Hate) Everything About You (Acoustic Version) – Single". iTunes Store. 22 September 2003. Retrieved December 14, 2016.
- Australia: "(I Hate) Everything About You (Acoustic Version) – Single". iTunes Store. 22 September 2003. Retrieved December 14, 2016.
- Great Britain: "(I Hate) Everything About You (Acoustic Version) – Single". iTunes Store. 22 September 2003. Retrieved December 14, 2016.
- iTunes EP:
- Australia: "I Hate Everything About You – EP". iTunes Store. 14 July 2003. Retrieved December 14, 2016.
- Great Britain: "I Hate Everything About You – EP". iTunes Store. 14 July 2003. Retrieved December 14, 2016.
- Germany: "I Hate Everything About You – EP". iTunes Store. 14 July 2003. Retrieved December 14, 2016.
- "I Hate Everything About You" / "Burn" iTunes single:
- Australia: "I Hate Everything About You / Burn – Single". iTunes Store. 13 May 2003. Retrieved December 14, 2016.
- Great Britain: "I Hate Everything About You / Burn – Single". iTunes Store. 13 May 2003. Retrieved December 14, 2016.
- Germany: "I Hate Everything About You / Burn – Single". iTunes Store. 13 May 2003. Retrieved December 14, 2016.
- "Three Days Grace – I Hate Everything About You". ARIA Top 50 Singles.
- "Three Days Grace cheats death". Canoe.com. July 25, 2006. Archived from the original on January 15, 2013. Retrieved September 4, 2022.
- "Tiparade Week 6". Dutch Top 40. Retrieved December 21, 2022.
- "Three Days Grace – I Hate Everything About You" (in Dutch). Single Top 100.
- "Three Days Grace Chart History (Hot 100)". Billboard.
- "Three Days Grace Chart History (Alternative Airplay)". Billboard.
- "Three Days Grace Chart History (Mainstream Rock)". Billboard.
- "Three Days Grace Chart History (Pop Songs)". Billboard.
- "Year in Music – Hot Modern Rock Tracks" (PDF). Billboard. December 25, 2004. p. YE-110. Retrieved May 8, 2022.
- "Canadian single certifications – Three Days Grace – I Hate Everything About You". Music Canada. Retrieved February 14, 2018.
- "Gold-/Platin-Datenbank (Three Days Grace; 'I Hate Everything About You')" (in German). Bundesverband Musikindustrie. Retrieved December 23, 2022.
- "British single certifications – Three Days Grace – Hate Everything About You". British Phonographic Industry. Retrieved 21 August 2020.
- "American single certifications – Three Days Grace – I Hate Everything About You". Recording Industry Association of America. Retrieved February 12, 2018.
- "American ringtone certifications – Three Days Grace – I Hate Everything About You". Recording Industry Association of America. Retrieved February 12, 2018.
- "Going for Adds" (PDF). Radio & Records. No. 1501. April 25, 2003. p. 26. Retrieved June 11, 2021.
- "FMQB Airplay Archive: Modern Rock". Friday Morning Quarterback Album Report, Incorporated. Archived from the original on March 22, 2013. Retrieved January 29, 2023.
- "Going for Adds" (PDF). Radio & Records. No. 1503. May 9, 2003. p. 28. Retrieved June 11, 2021.
- "Going for Adds" (PDF). Radio & Records. No. 1538. January 16, 2004. p. 24. Retrieved June 14, 2021.
- "I Hate Everything About You". Click2Music.com.au. Archived from the original on January 12, 2005. Retrieved December 14, 2016.